That’s it! No more being “Mr.Nice Guy”. You’re tired of getting walked on and not getting what you want out of life, you’re at the right place. Don’t get this confused, I’m not here to teach you how to be a douchebag either. These are going to be steps to increase your masculinity and get what you want from life.
The nice guy always does what he’s asked becuase he wants to make everyone happy, even at the expense of his own happiness. This is why he can never get a date, he always does what’s asked for and will go heads over heels for anyone like a well-trained puppy. Women easily get turned off by that. Don’t do unnecessary favors for people, makes you look like a kiss-up.
Let’s say there’s this pretty girl who you know at work or school and she always asks you to do her work. Just because you like her, you do it. Next time she asks you for a favor, really think about how that task makes you feel and think about how many times she hasn’t returned the favor. If that’s the case, just say NO, it doesn’t make you a bad guy, yet you’re more aware and conscious.
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Now that you’re not the “yes” guy anymore, it’s time to make your voice heard. Many nice guys ten to follow the herd to avoid criticism. Once you start expressing your opinions and how you truly feel, it’ll take you from that guy who everyone walks over to a masculine, assertive guy that everyone respects.
Now that people are listening to you, with that voice, you set the boundaries that you want. You’re not being a dick or a prick, you’re just saying what your comfortable with. This is great for relationships becuase communication is key and ultimately lead you to be happier in the end.
Nice guys do what other people want them to do. If you really want to break the mold, you have to forget about what others want, and figure out what you want. Whether it be a career, a future partner or who you want your friends to be. At the end of the day, it’s your happiness, not others.