Now I know that we all want to be able to win with the ladies, so today I am going to show you some tips to attract the ladies to you. I am going to talk about 4 tips that will make the ladies come to you.
You have to remember that it is almost like a mind game, so you want to make sure that you portray yourself as cool and important. You want to poke her curiosity and you want to lead her to want to say “hi” or ask you a question. Keep in mind that women tend to be a little more shy than men so it might take a couple of days for her to approach you. Make sure that you look confident and not scared or super shy.
When you are aiming to get her attention make sure that it is a change that she will notice. It can be something as simple as changing your hairstyle, changing the way you dress, or maybe even shaving off your beard.. What this will do is get her attention and maybe, just maybe spark her curiosity enough to make her want to approach you and start a conversation.
For this one you have to put yourself in her shoes, you have to remember that it is already hard enough for her to approach you already. This is especially difficult because society has instilled in us that men are the ones that should approach women. Make sure that you let her know that you are interested in her so that she will be more comfortable approaching you. You can do this in many ways, you can sit next to her in class, smile at her when you make eye contact with her. Make sure that you drop some hints about your interest so that she won’t be afraid of getting rejected.
You never want to come off overly confident or super arrogant, it’s already difficult enough for her to approach you so you never want to come off as an arrogant prick. Make sure that you have open body language that shows that you are open and fun. Make sure that you smile and don’t frown, don’t cross your arms because that can show that you are not very open or receptive, which can make it more difficult for her to approach you and that is exactly what you want to avoid.